You blame other people around you for your failures and problems. It seems to you that you have been treated unfairly, that your feelings have been hurt, or someone has been harmful about you. Meanwhile, you do not see your role in it and do not see or want to see opportunities for change. You don’t even realize that you’ve adopted the role of victim.
People are worried all the time whether they find recognition, whether they are recognized, whether they are valued and what place they can find in society. They try to achieve understanding and love and try to love themselves as well.
Adopting a role of victim may be related to the lack of emotional or parental support in childhood, resulting in a lack of secure affection with yourself and other people. If in childhood you have experienced mockery – criticism – humiliation – neglect – hostility, you will feel that you are unworthy of love, inept, marginalized, low-valued, you will fear of being ashamed. All above creates a feeling of insecurity.
If you feel bad through another person’s behaviour, you let the other person control you. You feel unhappy as you have accepted another person’s bad emotion.
By accepting and knowing your true EGO, you can experience your feelings calmly and understand them correctly.
When communicating with other people, can you calmly notice your own reaction and take an adequate decision accordingly?
The situation is always neutral, and it’s your choice how to approach it.
If you react depending on emotion, it is almost always related to your experience in the past and may not be related to the situation at all.
People are worried all the time whether they find recognition, whether they are recognized, whether they are valued and what place they can find in society. They try to achieve understanding and love and try to love themselves as well.
Adopting a role of victim may be related to the lack of emotional or parental support in childhood, resulting in a lack of secure affection with yourself and other people. If in childhood you have experienced mockery – criticism – humiliation – neglect – hostility, you will feel that you are unworthy of love, inept, marginalized, low-valued, you will fear of being ashamed. All above creates a feeling of insecurity.
If you feel bad through another person’s behaviour, you let the other person control you. You feel unhappy as you have accepted another person’s bad emotion.
By accepting and knowing your true EGO, you can experience your feelings calmly and understand them correctly.
When communicating with other people, can you calmly notice your own reaction and take an adequate decision accordingly?
The situation is always neutral, and it’s your choice how to approach it.
If you react depending on emotion, it is almost always related to your experience in the past and may not be related to the situation at all.
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